Tara Sutoria opens up about her relationship non‑negotiables, views on marriage and motherhood, and her long‑term dreams in a candid chat with Rhea Chakraborty.
When I first saw Tara Sutoria on Disney India’s Big Bada Boom, I never imagined that a few years later she would be sitting across from Rhea Chakraborty on Chapter 2, talking about the things that keep her awake at night. Tara Sutoria has always kept her personal life far away from the limelight, even while her professional journey – from the bubbly Disney series to her Bollywood debut in Student of the Year 2 – has been all over the news. But on that particular episode, Tara Sutoria let her guard down a little, and what came out was a mix of honesty, a dash of vulnerability and a lot of Indian‑flavoured practicality.
On Relationships: The Basics Matter
Rhea Chakraborty started the conversation by asking Tara Sutoria what she would consider non‑negotiable in any relationship – not just romance, but friendships, work‑colleagues, the whole lot. Tara Sutoria was straight to the point: honesty is the foundation. She said, “If I am being honest and sincere, I expect the same in return. Dishonesty, any form of deceit or pretence, just doesn’t sit well with me.” It sounded simple, but Tara Sutoria added that it’s rare to find people who truly value those basics.
Rhea Chakraborty nodded and remarked that such simple expectations feel almost luxurious today. Tara Sutoria aGreed, mentioning that the younger generation, especially in metro cities, tends to over‑complicate what should be basic human decency. “Kindness, honesty, self‑awareness – they should just be there. No need to remind people every single day,” Tara Sutoria said, chuckling as if recalling a conversation with a friend over chai at a roadside dhaba.
At the same time, Tara Sutoria confessed that she is a very sensitive person. “I don’t forgive and forget easily. The hurt stays with me, it just… lingers,” she admitted. It was a subtle reminder that even someone who looks composed on screen carries a deeper emotional world.
On Motherhood: Still Figuring It Out
When the chat turned to motherhood, the atmosphere shifted a bit. Rhea Chakraborty asked Tara Sutoria about the questions she often gets from relatives – especially the aunties who love to talk about grandchildren. At 30, many of Tara Sutoria’s peers have already started families, but she said there is no ticking clock in her mind.
“I love children, I really do. But there is no urgent fire burning inside me to become a mother right now,” Tara Sutoria explained. She highlighted the responsibility that comes with raising a child, insisting that motherhood can’t be a part‑time thing. “If you decide to become a mother, it must be a conscious, wholehearted choice. Anything less would be unfair to the child,” she said, using an example of how she once helped a neighbour look after his baby while he was at work, and how she realized how demanding it can be.
Tara Sutoria also shared that she is comfortable with the uncertainty. “Maybe one day the desire will become clear, maybe it won’t. And that’s okay. I’m not afraid of staying single or child‑free if that’s where life leads me.” It was a refreshing take that many Indian women, especially those in the entertainment industry, rarely get to express openly.
On Marriage: A Newfound Excitement
The next topic was marriage, and this is where Tara Sutoria’s tone changed to a more hopeful note. In her early twenties, the idea of getting married never even entered her mind. “I was focused on my career, travelling, learning new things. Marriage felt like a distant concept,” Tara Sutoria said.
But over the past few years, something shifted. Tara Sutoria now finds the idea of marriage romantic and comforting. “Choosing one person to spend a lifetime with – it feels meaningful. It’s a partnership that’s built on trust, love and mutual growth,” she explained. She also admitted that the excitement is fresh, and she is still learning what a healthy marriage looks like, especially after seeing both happy and challenging relationships around her.
Rhea Chakraborty asked if Tara Sutoria is actively looking for a partner. Tara Sutoria laughed lightly, saying, “Not actively. I believe if the right person comes, things will flow naturally, just like the monsoon arriving after a long dry spell.” The analogy gave a very Indian flavor to the conversation, making it relatable for many listeners who learn to wait for the right moment.
Looking Ahead: A Slower, Creative Life
When the conversation turned to future aspirations, Tara Sutoria painted a picture that felt almost like a day‑dream. She imagines herself living away from the chaotic city noise, maybe in a spacious house on the outskirts of a town, surrounded by trees, birds and a small garden where she can grow her own vegetables.
“I want to host small gatherings with close friends, cook simple meals, and just enjoy quiet evenings with my partner,” Tara Sutoria said. She described the idea of waking up early, doing yoga on a verandah, and then spending a few hours painting or playing the piano – activities that she says keep her grounded.
Professionally, Tara Sutoria hopes to stay connected to her artistic roots. She mentioned an interest in theatre, music and even culinary arts. “One day I would love to open a restaurant, maybe a place that serves Indian comfort food with a modern twist. And if I get the chance, I would love to start a performing‑arts school – a place where young talent can learn, experiment and grow,” she said, smiling as if she could already smell the aroma of fresh naan.
These ambitions are not just lofty dreams; Tara Sutoria is already taking small steps. She’s taking cooking classes, practicing theatre workshops, and is in talks with a few friends about a possible pop‑up restaurant in Delhi’s Hauz Khas area. The vision is clear – a life where creativity and simplicity go hand in hand.
Final Thoughts: Embracing the Journey
By the end of the episode, it was clear that Tara Sutoria is comfortable with the fact that she is still figuring things out. While she appears “sorted” from the outside – having a successful film career and a growing fan base – inside she acknowledges that life is a series of choices, each one taken at her own pace.
Rhea Chakraborty summed it up nicely, noting that many of us, especially in India’s fast‑moving urban circles, feel pressured to have everything planned out by a certain age. Tara Sutoria’s candidness serves as a gentle reminder that it’s okay to take the scenic route, to pause, to reassess, and to enjoy the little moments – whether it’s a cup of chai on a rainy morning or a quiet evening spent sketching under a tree.
In the end, Tara Sutoria’s story is not just about love, marriage or motherhood. It’s about staying true to oneself, holding onto core values like honesty, and daring to dream of a life that balances creativity, simplicity and genuine human connection. And isn’t that something we all can relate to, no matter where we come from?
